another chatting session with Nafe.
he approached me and we just talk about girls..
nafe says:
btw, ur blogpost i think ah.. is the words every guy wants to say
nafe says:
hahah
nafe says:
the love not blind part
muz.' says:
ya?
nafe says:
?
muz.' says:
which part?
nafe says:
the love is simple part
nafe says:
wait wait. i copy paste
muz.' says:
k
nafe says:
muz.' says:
if everybody is blind, they will just go with someone who is emotionally comfortable and attached with
muz.' says:
so my theory goes like this, if everbody is blind, love is so clear.
muz.' says:
and no more "love is blind"
muz.' says:
ya?
muz.' says:
yup
muz.' says:
this applies for both parties actually
muz.' says:
not only guys la
muz.' says:
maybe that someone u fantasy of is beyond your reality
muz.' says:
u want tt girl to go blind right
muz.' says:
haha
nafe says:
oo
nafe says:
oh. yeah. dont seem intent to get a girl
nafe says:
they'll come to u
muz.' says:
so basically ure waiting for fate?
nafe says:
kinda
nafe says:
hahah
nafe says:
err. i dunno
nafe says:
in general la. some guys are like that. they are their natural side when they're with friends. if got girls they interested in ah, they ARE what the girls like. that is what i feel
muz.' says:
yea..true man..ure the man
muz.' says:
sometimes to me, u need a balance of natural and act
muz.' says:
u need to act when certain unforseen circumstances is blocking u
muz.' says:
let say when u need to act mature
nafe says:
u need to know when to balance ur personalities.
nafe says:
in front of your friends maybe jokerish and abit act.
muz.' says:
yea
nafe says:
but 1to1 with close friends is where your true self
muz.' says:
yup..true
muz.' says:
and that is the reason why u must go out in a group with the girl u like in the group
muz.' says:
so u can see her natural side
nafe says:
yarh
muz.' says:
but the problem is that, u will have this unnatural,awkward and absurd feeling when talking to her in the grooup itself
nafe says:
yeah
muz.' says:
so this comes back to the point where we should set our mentality to be frens first
nafe says:
yes
nafe says:
be frens
nafe says:
get to know her more
muz.' says:
precisely
In conclusion, what we have learnt is that in life or to like someone in particular, u need to have a balance of personality. When you have a date with someone, ur friends will be saying "just be yourself". That's true. U need to be yourself but when ure with her, the situation changes. For example, when you're ordering food for the girl, u will be more gentleman, mature and mannered. So, is that natural or acting? If you go out with your close friends, u will go burping anywhere, laughing ur head out and screaming. Okay, dont get side track here. The point is u need a balance of personality in life. For me, it is controlling my ego. And that is what my bestie told me..thanks.